New Trikki Watson book : Strict Learning

I occasionally check what is happening with ‘Trikki as after all, he and one of my favorite clients ‘Rick’ are good friends.

Trikki wrote ‘Ricks First Session’ about our first meeting in the dungeon. I quite liked it. Trikki does go in for long descriptions and lots of background which I enjoy.

Anyway Strict Learning is Trikki’s latest book and I grabbed a copy. It’s on special pricing and for 60,000 words the crazy price of $1 works for me. Thanks Trikki!

I LOVED it. It has three separate sections. A simple corporal session at the start, a quite long section with sex and classroom corporal, then a huge corporal session leading into some bondage and fetish at the rear.

I do like Ms Smeet the headmistress and her gear. She gives a solid strapping and caning which are attributes I see in myself. Trikki described a strapping stool which I do not have, and from his descriptions, it is something I should remedy.

All my clients indulge in a little bondage. A nice leather covered stool with lots of straps to keep them tightly bound and presented for discipline and maybe a little strap-on play would spice things up nicely. I wonder how I could get Angel involved with this for my double sessions? More thought required.

In My Day

I’m a lot younger than Rick and Trikki and in the years between, the use of corporal punishment was banned in schools. I never saw or heard of it at school.

I think that’s a good thing.

On average before I moved to my current position, I was doing maybe 3 corporal sessions a day for five days a week. That’s a lot and admittedly I have a lot of repeat clients.

However, I have seen a lot of clients, and I talk to them to find their likes, their dislikes and try to get inside their heads. To be successful I believe it’s essential to find a connection and gain understanding of my clients.

What I do hear, and it is something that upsets me, is that some clients can’t abide some implements because of school days trauma.

In particular, some clients hate the cane because they were caned so hard and so often at school. They felt the injustice of it, the brutality of a grown person beating a child, that it stayed with them for decades. That’s upsetting.

As A Dominatrix and Corporal Punishment

I love giving corporal punishment. There is no point being shy about this. It is however between consenting adults.

The ‘swick’ of the cane as it lands across a bottom, the ‘crack’ of a strap, the ‘splat’ of the a flogger; all are delightful to me. I hear the gasps of the slave as the pain kicks in, I see them squirm in bondage, and I see their conflicted feelings. They want to escape the pain, they dread the next stroke, they love the session and don’t want it to end.

Most of all I adore watching the wide eyes of the client, the slave, taking discipline from me and seeing them change. They watch me with cane, strap, flogger or whatever tools I am using, and they steel themselves to accept what I dish out. When I tell them ‘It’s a dozen of the best for you naughty boy’ then deliver them, I see them struggle to accept the pain. But when it is over I see the relief and the pleasure at their achievement.

I love to see a client recede, regress, move from the here and now into sub-space as the session proceeds. That is the end goal, the Mistress Goal and mark of a good session. Crafting a session to suit a client, then to actually bring that about is a fantastic feeling.

Finally, at the end of a session I see them ‘re-invented’ from their time with me. They come into the session stressed, sometimes almost shaking and hardly able to hold a conversation. When they leave relaxed, reassured of their place in the world, happy and refreshed, I call that a success.

Corporal punishment has its place. It’s all part of a negotiated session. The client express a need, I work with them, I provide what is agreed.

That is the place for corporal punishment. Not in schools.

Play safe, play sane, respect is everything – ‘MT

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